Sunday, March 8, 2026

The Third Sunday in Lent, March 8, 2026

Holy Cross Monastery, West Park, NY

Br. Bruno Santana, OHC

“Domine, da mi hi aquam” ( Lord, give me water)

Today is the third Sunday of Lent and is International Women’s Day. In our gospel today a woman plays a very important rule and, I want to bring some important women in the church history and in the monastic life to help us in our reflections.

When I was in college in Spain, between my colleagues we always had biblical and theological discussions and questions and preparing this homily came to my mind the question about the Samaritan women, about her name. We know from tradition that her name was St. Photina. The first one that recognize Jesus as the Messiah.

Most of you left your home and come here to our monastery to a centering prayer retreat, personal retreat, came to mass and others to become a monk like my brothers and myself. We all came here because there is a desire for God in us. I want to invite you to be aware of, to recognize the desire for God that is present in you, in your heart, inside us, in the depths of our being.

I believe that you heard about Saint Teresa D’avila about prayer. (1515–1582), a Spanish Carmelite nun, mystic. In her autobiography, The Book of Her Life (30:19), she says: 

“Oh, how many times do I recall the living water that the Lord told the Samaritan woman about! And so, I am very fond of that gospel passage. Thus, it is, indeed, that from the time I was a little child, without understanding this good as I do now, I often begged the Lord to give me the water. I always carried with me a painting of this episode of the Lord at the well, with the words, inscribed: Domine, da mihi aquam” (Lord, give me that water).

In today's gospel, we see how Christ approaches a Samaritan woman and establishes a dialogue with her, saying, "Give me a drink."

The Samaritan woman was surprised because it was not normal for a man to approach and speak with a stranger woman alone, and especially since she was a Samaritan, who did not speak with the Jews. But Jesus has something different, Jesus has something special, that makes her trust in Him, engaging in a conversation.

And back to Saint Teresa D’avila again when she talks prayer she says (The Book of Her Life (Vida, Chapter 8). ("Mental prayer in my opinion is nothing else than an intimate sharing between friends; it means taking time frequently to be alone with Him who we know loves us.")

I see this moment, this dialogue between Jesus and the Samaritan Woman as Prayer and I believe that to begin this path of love and friendship, we need to know how much Jesus loves us.

Jesus says to the Samaritan woman: "If you knew the gift of God..." He is telling her, "If you knew the gratuity of God, his infinite and unconditional love for you, everything he wants to give to you and who it is who asks you for a drink, you would ask him, and He would give you living water."

Jesus always invites us for dialogue, to discover who he is. To show us the importance of becoming aware of our need for living water.

On our journey through Lent today, we are invited to take another step in our conversion. Lent is a time for Metanoia (from the Greek μετάνοια) is a profound, transformative change of heart, mind, and direction. To think differently, to go "beyond" one's current, limited way of thinking.

Jesus invites us to discover what is the radical thirst of our life and what is the water that can truly quench our thirst to become aware that he is the only one that can satisfy our thirst in this life. He reminds us today that it is not outside where we will find that happiness we long for.

The living water is not in things external to us, but within ourselves and must be sought within.

I want to read from The Confessions of Saint Augustin this quote.

Late have I loved you, O Beauty ever ancient, ever new, late have I loved you! You were within me, but I was outside, and it was there that I searched for you. You were with me, but I was not with you. I have tasted you, now I hunger and thirst for more. You touched me, and I burned for your peace.

This is a call to us to make an inner journey, to a personal relationship with Jesus, to receive this living Water in prayer and in love.

Jesus replied: ‘Whoever drinks this water will get thirsty again; but anyone who drinks the water that I shall give will never be thirsty again: the water that I shall give will turn into a spring inside him, welling up to eternal life’.

Jesus promises us that if we receive his water, we will not only quench our thirst but will become springs of that water and will be able to give drink to many thirsty people around us.

Like the Samaritan woman, we are invited to leave our fleeting loves that take away our strength and do not quench our thirst, and to focus on love in Christ so that from him we can love everyone.

I invite you to enter silence, enter the depths of your being (into the depth) and let Jesus speak to your heart. Let him discover the deep thirst of your soul. Let Him open your life to others and to love. Let Him plant in the deepest part of your being that spring of faith and peace never runs out but extends to eternal life happy with the Lord.

And let's say to Jesus:  Jesus, help me discover that, prayer is a meeting of the thirsty. I, being thirsty, ask You for living water, but You also tell me, "Give me a drink." You are thirsty for me.

I believe that you heard about Saint Thérèse of Lisieux in her book of a Soul: She says: "Behold then all that Jesus asks of us: “…He has no need of our works but only of our love. for this same God, who declares He has no need to tell us if he is hungry, did not hesitate to beg for a little water from the Samaritan woman. He was thirsty. But when He said: “Give me to drink,” it was the love of His poor creatures that the Creator of the universe was asking for. He was thirsty for love.”

In this text, she reflects on a very beautiful idea: God does not need our works, but He desires our love. God is the Creator of everything, so our actions do not add anything to Him. Yet in the Gospel, Jesus allows Himself to appear poor and thirsty. For example, when He asks the Samaritan woman for water in John 4:7, He says, “Give me to drink.”

Saint Thérèse understands that Jesus was not only thirsty for water. She says that He was thirsting for love—the love of human souls. The Creator of the universe was asking His creatures for their love.

The message is very simple: God is not first looking for great achievements or extraordinary works. What He desires most is love. Even the smallest act, if it is done with love, can respond to the thirst of Christ.

This is the heart of Saint Thérèse’s spiritual teaching: that simple acts of love, done every day, are very precious to God.

Saint Thérèse reminds us that great holiness is not about doing great things, but about doing small things with great love.

I want to conclude this reflection with this question: How can we give our love to Christ today, even in the smallest things?

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