Sunday, December 14, 2025

The Third Sunday of Advent, Year A, December 14, 2025

Holy Cross MonasteryWest Park, NY

Br. Scott Wesley Borden

The Third Sunday of Advent, December 14, 2025


 

Here we are in the Third Sunday of Advent. In the great countdown to Christmas, we’re almost there. In some traditions this is known as Gaudete Sunday, Rejoice Sunday, and the candle in the Advent Wreath, traditionally, is pink rather than purple... You’ll notice that none of our candles are purple... let alone pink. The various colors are a modern tradition, and they are hardly set in stone.

But if the colors were part of our wreath, they would have a story to tell. The dark purple (or indigo or blue) would keep us aware that Advent, like Lent, is a penitential season... and the point of Gaudete Sunday was to remind us that it's not all doom and gloom... Emanuel is, after all, about to be with us. When the bridegroom is present you cannot be gloomy...

Some go a step further, supposing that this is the Sunday also known as “stir up” Sunday. But it isn’t and never was. It is true that the collect for today does begin with the call to “Stir up your power O Lord...” And the thought attached to this is that today was the day people preparing a Christmas Pudding had to stir up the batter... Alas, this is not the day for that. The Feast of Christ the King displaced that Sunday – which still exists as a sort of strange, unanchored footnote. Its collect does indeed also begin with stir up... “stir up we beseech thee, O Lord...” the batter for our Christmas pudding...

But the Sunday last before Advent, as it was formally known, has been given over to other purposes. And so steamed Christmas pudding is lost for all time... Here in the US, we’re not so big on steamed English puddings anyway, more is the pity.

It fascinates me that in increasingly secular cultures like Europe, some customs seem to persist. The venerable Advent Calendar is one that surprises me. I grew up with Advent Calendars that featured a daily chocolate treat of very dubious quality enclosed behind colorful paper flaps.

Apparently, chocolate only found its way into Advent Calendars in about 1958 – the same year I found my way into this world... As I was looking for details about the history of the Advent Calendar I found this little note: Today, Advent calendars can be found with a vast range of contents, including toys, makeup, cheese, and other surprises, though the original religious versions are still produced... Thank goodness that something of religious tradition still remains in Advent. Though I suspect for many it's just a misunderstood cultural artifact.

Part of the challenge for us, even for those of us who have the privilege of living in a monastery, is to let the Church Season of Advent keep its voice and not be out sung (or outshouted) by our Capitalist Secular culture that can make anything into a marketing opportunity. For example: for a mere thirty-four dollars you can purchase a Barbie Advent Calendar which includes a Barbie doll and then many days of Barbie accessories... If you want to spend more, how about the Missoma Fine Jewelry Advent Calendar for a mere twenty-two hundred dollars...

The notion of looking forward to the birth of our savior, born in poverty in a stable, with high-end jewelry, or with a collection of top shelf single malt scotches, or with exotic makeup is scandalous or worse.

And this is still Advent... What comes after makes Advent pale. Our Christmas celebrations are often a mockery of the message of Jesus. We’re not called to austerity – when the bridegroom is with us, we are meant to celebrate. But to borrow from our Shaker brothers and sisters; “tis a gift to be simple.” I dare say it’s not a gift on many people’s lists...

But let's come back to the Third Sunday of Advent... and in particular to the Gospel according to Matthew.

Though we are not yet at the arrival of Jesus, this passage from Matthew has us near the end of Jesus’ time on earth, and even nearer the end of John’s time on earth.

John sends out some of his disciples to ask Jesus if he is really the Messiah, or should they keep looking. It seems like John, of all people, should know the answer to his question. This is the same Jesus that caused John to leap in Elizabeth’s womb. This is the same Jesus who John baptized and the heavens thundered. But now, at this late moment, John’s faith is shaky? Or perhaps this question is more for the benefit of others... of us.

John’s disciples dutifully find Jesus and ask him. And Jesus tells them to go and tell John that the deaf hear, the blind see, the lame walk... Jesus is recounting the various prophesies about Messiah, about Jesus. Jesus is reminding John that the promised Messiah is not a great military hero, but rather a healer... a comforter... a lover of souls. Not a mighty warrior...

Sometimes our expectations of what we think is coming cause us to miss what really comes. Perhaps John, like so many of his contemporaries was drifting into the illusion that Jesus was here to destroy the Romans. Our expectations have a unique ability to blind us.

John’s disciples go to tell John, and Jesus turns his attention to everyone else: What are you people looking at? What kind of show did you come for? What are you here to see? Not a weak reed... not an over-hyped, pampered politician... Whether we know it or not, they (and we) have come seeking a prophet.

Our popular culture wants us to believe that prophets are seers of the future... Their primary purpose is to predict the far-off things. What a handy and useful skill that would be... But that is not the purpose of a prophet. Their purpose is to call us back to faithful living in God’s ways.

This is why nobody really likes a prophet... Herod didn’t like John – nor did his wife... So, John’s head was removed from the rest of him. Jesus laments that Jerusalem is the city that murders the prophets. And over the Millenia we haven’t changed on that... Just look at Martin Luther King.

Scripture teaches us that without a prophet the people parish. Yet there is one thing more dangerous than no prophet, and that is a false prophet – these days we have an abundance of those...

Jesus has given us some clues about this prophet business. He tells us that in all of history there has never been a greater prophet than John. John offers no hints about what the future may hold. But he is unrelenting in calling us to a holier way of living – to preparing the way of the Lord.

At this mid-point in Advent, John, in his prophet’s way, is reminding us that we have to keep in mind why it matters that Jesus is born in Bethlehem. All the celebration to come, the beautiful music and sumptuous food... the awesome decorations and the good company, must not obscure the fact that our world, like the world at the time of Jesus, is a sorrowful mess. Cruelty, violence, and grotesque injustice are in abundance. Why do we think it's acceptable for someone to have to choose between their prescription medications and their groceries – in the richest country on earth. Martin Luther King told us that justice is a calculation of God’s love. A lot of our social policies seem to calculate something very different... very ungodly.

Jesus comes into our world not to magically fix things. Jesus comes because we need saving – from ourselves. As Christina Rosetti puts it, love comes down at Christmas. And bit by bit we need to receive that love. As James Huntington tells us, love must act.  So, enjoy good food, sing joyful carols, look at beautiful decorations, take in the love of the season and the love of God. But don’t stop there. Take action to share God’s love with all of God’s creation.


Tuesday, December 9, 2025

The First Profession of the Monastic Vow of Br. Daniel Benjamin Hansknecht, OHC, December 9, 2025

Holy Cross Monastery, West Park, New York

Br. Robert James Magliula

The First Profession of the Monastic Vow of Br. Daniel Benjamin Hansknecht, OHC, December 9, 2025





Ben, you came to us seven years ago to live alongside the community as an intern, and then a year and a half ago you returned as a postulant and then a novice in the community. You know first-hand that this life presents its challenges and its rewards. You’ve learned that community life presents human beings at their best and at their worst. When you requested to take the name Daniel, marveling at his experience in the lion’s den, I confess that it crossed my mind that there might be a parallel there to your initial monastic experience. Initial formation is intended to take you outside of your familiar framework to raise basic questions where meaning is challenged, decisions reconsidered, and doubts unearthed. It can be daunting and exhausting, and it can both drain but also infuse hope. When our private worlds go to dust, hope digs in the ruins of our heart for memory of God’s promise to bring good out of bad, joy out of sadness, and life out of death. For all of us, especially in these times, hope is not optimism in the face of dire circumstances, nor is it founded on denial. Hope is made of memories which remind us that there is nothing in life we have not faced that we did not, through grace, survive. Hope is the certainty that something will make sense, regardless of how it turns out.

Today, as you make your vowed commitment to continue your discernment, the more honest you are in examining your own motives, the closer you are to being yourself. The more equipped you are to distinguish the person you want to be from the one everybody else wants you to be, the more likely you are to become it. Without the honesty it takes to unmask the self, there is no liberation, let alone fulfillment. To make a truly life-giving discernment, we all need to squarely face what it is that gives us life. We need to speak the truth of our interests, our abilities, our desires, as well as our dissatisfactions. We need the help that comes from having our confusion, disappointment, and anxiety accepted and understood by those who are not threatened by it. We need the acceptance and encouragement of each other so we can move beyond fear to the freedom it takes to be who we are. The power that comes with self-discovery at any age catalyzes us. Our holy Father Benedict, in the longest Chapter of the Rule, emphasizes humility, which is nothing less than living in the truth.

The three-fold vow helps us to continue to embrace the path of seeking God and satisfying our desire in a communal context. The vow is not about negation, restriction, or limitation. The vow guides us in facing the three basic demands of this life: the need to listen, the need to not run away, especially from ourselves, and the need to change, the conversion of our way to the monastic way, by embracing transformation through common ownership and consecrated celibacy. Living the vow requires fidelity, endurance, perseverance, and patience---with yourself and with your brothers. The Epistle today wisely exhorts us to clothe ourselves in compassion, kindness, meekness and patience, forgiving each other, and clothing ourselves in love which binds us all together in harmony in one body. (Col.3:12-14) Your commitment today reminds all of us that the paschal mystery of Jesus’ dying and rising is the pattern of our monastic life. Our ongoing conversion is a sign of our commitment to allow God to continue to work within us.

While we come here seeking God, it becomes increasingly evident that God has sought us. In the depths of our heart, hear the invitation to abide with Christ. Our Gospel today reminds us that we cannot live this life apart from abiding in the love of Christ. He is the vine, the source of our life and love and all that flows from it in community. Our primary relationship is with Christ. He is both the Light we see and the Illumination by which we see. That Light and Illumination reveal mercy and forgiveness in the shadows of guilt and shame, courage in the night of fear, compassion and hope in sorrow and loss, a way forward in the blindness of confusion, and life in the darkness of death. Our monastic life is the call to immerse ourselves in the all-inclusive and transforming love of God. Giving witness to that love, leads deeper into the meaning of being chosen by Christ, and of learning to prefer nothing to Christ. It is the flame of God’s love that consumes our darkness and frees us for the peace God has promised.

Faithfulness is a prerequisite to trust and intimacy. With divine love flowing through us we can see others and ourselves in our connectedness and wholeness. But be warned, the vow does not put an end to struggle. God intends us to live together in the fragility of human imperfection which leaves us open to deeper truth. Yet, even when we fail, and often because of it, we come to know more of ourselves, each other, and God.

 Daniel, you are now embarking on another stage of your life pilgrimage.  Within the abundance God’s and our love, we give great thanks that you’ve decided to take this next step as we continue this journey together.  +Amen.

Sunday, November 30, 2025

The First Sunday of Advent, Year A, November 30, 2025

Holy Cross Monastery, West Park, NY

Br. Randy Greve
The First Sunday of Advent, November 30, 2025



He had a vision.  Jesus spoke to him - gave him the date (dates, two, actually).  He said he was one billion percent certain.  It was his mission now to share this great vision, this direct voice, with the world.  Christians must prepare now.  And thankfully we are not preparing in theory, preparing in a metaphorical way, but preparing for a date, a date certain.  Pastor Joshua heard from Jesus about the rapture, when Christians will be snatched up and away into heaven and the tribulation will commence, conveniently without us.  September 23 OR 24, 2025 were the dates - one of these days is when the rapture would happen.  “About that day or hour no one knows” Jesus says in the gospel.  But that does not mean we will not know about TWO days, just not THAT day, but one of these days!  What good is a vision if kept to oneself?  No good at all!  On to YouTube he goes, describing in detail what Jesus said, even how he looked, and the need to prepare.  Viral sharing and commenting commence, and, since it is 2025, a general stir is created among those Christians for whom the rapture is a sure and certain hope.  What else could “caught up to meet the Lord in the air” possibly mean?  True believers quit jobs, sell cars and furniture, and prepare.  Last time I checked, pastor Joshua had updated the new dates of the rapture at least twice, this time not creating quite as much stir or as many views as with the original video.  It seems that misremembering the details of a vision of Jesus that many times negatively affects one’s credibility.
This is not new, of course.  Even the disciples, in the very moments before the Ascension, ask Jesus, “Is it now?”  It is the Lord’s fault, I contend.  Ask us to watch and wait for something to happen with no date, no prelude, no way to access any concrete information about when it will happen.  Watch and wait.  Just watch and wait.  Can we have a clue?  No.  A little hint?  No.  What if we pray very sincerely to know the time, will you tell us?  No. And don’t ask me again.  I don't even know.  It’s not fair.  It leaves open too many possible misunderstandings and false predictions - manipulation and deception.  Perhaps better to announce the date and let us sort it out when it gets closer, maybe an hour before.  What we have now is too vague - it’s not practical.  It’s not helpful.
We begin Advent with the confession that we are not generally a highly formed culture of waiting, especially of open-ended, don’t-know-how-long-we-will-have-to-wait-or-what-we-are-waiting-for kinds of people.  Just note the lifting up of Christmas trees after Halloween and all of the hustle and bustle which has already commenced.  When viewed at the surface, Jesus’ seemingly contradictory insistences on the need to be alert and the impossibility of knowing exactly what we are being alert for tie us up in logical knots.  His principal focus, however, is the presence of God in the human heart which enters us into a different way of knowing, an altogether mysterious and foreign realm of “already and not yet.”  We begin by remembering that we will not “figure it out” by thinking more or be “better” at Advent by trying harder.  What we enter, if we dare, is a realm beyond time, a process that moves, but at its own pace and in its own way, that can only be thwarted by insisting on looking outside ourselves and ignoring the blossoming of readiness growing in our souls.  Waiting and watching are not problems that are solved by more data, they are ways of being which usher us into God’s time that is beyond our limited notions of past, present, or future.
Scheduling the Parousia is God’s job.  Being ready is our job.  Jesus helps us by an example of what being awake is NOT.  He says that the people of Noah’s time were in an unconscious trance of the everyday and ordinary.  What happened yesterday is what will happen today.  What happened today is what will happen tomorrow.  Boy, those are some dark clouds, but it has rained before.  Wow, this is some heavy rain, but I’m sure it will stop soon.  Their lives were a kind of entitlement of continuity that rendered them unable to perceive the nature of the flood that had commenced.  When the soul loses touch with meaning and wonder, the spiritual life animating us and the world, it loses the expectation that life can change, that something new might happen, that this world is passing away.  “And they knew nothing until the flood came and swept them all away.”  Their ignorance of and indifference to their own condition and the condition of the world around them is the cautionary warning of what NOT to become.
Readiness is a slippery state.  It’s like humility - as soon as I know how humble I am, I am no longer as humble as I think I am.  Watchfulness is always becoming.  It is something like the acknowledgement that fresh insight, deeper understanding, fuller presence is always being offered to us and called forth out of us.  I have a picture in my office of a sign posted on a tree in a wood that says, “You are NOT almost there.”  This inner dynamic becomes a gift to the world - a precious and dangerous gift.  Once we are willing to see, we can perceive the nature of the principalities and powers at work among us.  We can name the systems and structures of evil and we can also reveal gratitude at the beauty and joy of life.  Joy and peace and justice break forth in our world as we are faithful in our call to be stewards of making straight paths where no path seems possible.  Christ will come on the last day, for sure.  But it is also true to say that every day is the last day, every day is the day of judgment, every day reveals the quality of our presence and our engagement with announcing the urgency of the moment - life is short, time is passing, we are promised no certain number of future days, we can take nothing for granted, we continually rely on and entrust our lives to God who made us and who will receive our souls back we know not when.  When in response to the travails in our country people say, “it can’t happen here”, “things will go back to normal” I wonder if it is the equivalent of saying, “Boy, those are some dark clouds, but it has rained before.”  “Wow, this is some heavy rain, but I’m sure it will stop soon.”  Is that not the same denial and avoidance used in Noah’s day?  The myth of normalcy can still sweep us away, blind to the reality of the moment.  Salvation is waking up and finding refuge in the Ark that is Christ, our only hope.
  The glory of salvation is that God’s promise is salvation in - in these bodies, in this world, in this time.  Not from them, but in them.  Not escape, but renewal.  One of the classic jokes in my family is that my father once asked my mother whether she wanted to be buried in a casket or cremated.  Her response was, “I don’t know, surprise me.”  Come and surprise us, O Lord, with aliveness today and life in the age to come beyond all we can ask or imagine. Amen.